The ultimate difficulty

My poor friend arjun had gone through the life’s more difficult path. But the way he managed was great. Off course still he is on the same way, typical part,. no more.

He is a govt. employee and earning 10k/month in Hyderabad. He had his sister and brother in his native. His father & mother both were diabetic patients and his father had additional problem with kidneys and mother with heart.One day he got a phone call from his home town saying that father’s health was not good. He immediately went his home town (Nellore, AP).Doctor told ,because of diabetes, 80% his father’s kidneys were damaged. He admitted his father in a multispecialty hospital in which the equipment for dialysis were available.

Dialysis process is an artificial purification of blood. Doctor will operate at the wrist of the patient to pullout 2 nerves, one for pulling out impure blood and other for pushing filtered blood into the patient's body.
This operation is called pitsulla operation. There will be a filter which takes the impure blood and filters it and pushes it back into the patient's body.This filter is external to the patient. We can say this instrument as an artificial kidney.

Usually doctors execute this dialysis process based on the working condition of kidneys in patient’s body. Weekly once,twice or thrice.

If the nerves at wrist are not supporting to get the blood and push the blood, then the doctor will do the pitsulla operation at the neck, even if it fails then he will do it at thighs.

Arjun’s father had gone through all these three kinds of pitsulla operations.

He was getting phone calls from his office as he had to complete some critical work.

It was so miserable and pathetic situation, I am not getting the words to tell you. There was a disease called chikun gunya spread over in that area and his mom also infected with that. It spread through mosquitoes.

He kept his brother at his father and his sister at his mother (He admitted her into another hospital which is famous in curing lung diseases…I mean chikun gunya).

He went back to Hyderabad and took leave and returned to home town.

His mother was not able to walk and not even able to talk as she had infection in her lungs. His father was undergoing dialysis process every day. (Tears….. :-().

That was 10th day of his father’s dialysis, his mother was discharged and she started walking slowly. He took her straight away to the hospital where his father was undergoing dialysis process.

Initially doctors didn’t allow his mom to see his farther as his father was going through dialysis. Arjun requested the doctor and took his mother to the dialysis room. That’s it.

In that room, his father was on the bed and the dialysis process was happening and his mother was stepping towards his father slowly. His father asked “How are you now?”. She replied “ok, I am fine”.“Did you eat lunch?” Asked his father with smiling face(Even though there was horrendous pain).“Yes” she said. “Ok, Take care” he said as if he is feeling all right.

It was an AC room, doctor said, take her out as she was also a patient and cold environment is not suitable to her. He took her to home. After 19 days of dialysis process his father died of heart attack during the process at midnight 1.20AM.
Hospital incharge told that he need to pay all the treatment cost to take the dead body to his native.
There was around 30k to pay at that midnight to take the dead body. The ATM was not working which was nearby to the hospital and he had to go 2 kilometers away from hospital. Finally after paying the amount, hospital people allowed to take out his father’s dead body. He felt so difficult to convey about his father’s death to his mother and sister who were in his native.


Helpless doctors, helpless god……..Really, this is the ultimate difficulty in one’s life.

Good or Bad

What is good? What is bad? As a reader you can say this article is good if you like it otherwise bad,
If you consider someone who hates reading articles, he will say this is bad. But someone who really have interest in reading books or articles and explore more will say good……..:-).(Also my frds).
I am going to apply Einstein’s theory to these words. Yes, they are relative to the people and environment they are living.
Most of the kids like ice cream and chocolates but most of the old people do not.
Americans like pizza and burgers but Indians do not.
If you ask some opinion about a latest ice cream to the kids they will say ‘good’ but if you ask the same to old people they will say ‘bad’.
If you ask about the taste of pizza and burger Americans say they are good but Indians say rice or roti are good.
Giving money to a beggar who is feeling hungry, good thing in one’s mind. In some other’s perspective it is not good to give money to a beggar as they feel like encouraging the beggar to beg.
So there are so many things like this. There is no common reference for all the people to decide whether the thing is good or bad and whether they are following good or bad. So much of confusion, isn’t it….enough.
So what I am trying to say is, taking a good decision in any aspect will depend on the people’s perspective and the environment. I am not saying my article good but not bad as well……….:-)


-Vijay

Innovative Trip

Yeah,,,..we, Sony team had been to innovative filmcity as part our team outing.
It was a memorable trip for the entire team as it happened after 6 months of teamouting plan. Everybody in the team are very eager to get this moment and really we enjoyed a lot.


Entrance of the film city was beautifully decorated and we had gone through fragnance of the flowers and fresh air while entering into it.Took nice snaps every time that we came across greenery and statues.


Truly speaking we got disappointed when we saw the SHOLLEY movie….sorry its not a movie….just half a song and half of the gabber sing ka dialog.thats it.Instead they would have put AVATAR trailer, a billion worth show.

The events that we enjoyed were Roller Caster,Swimming Pool,Go Carting,Mirrer image,
Scatting..

We enjoyed the formar event a lot. Nobody knows scatting…but great thing is , people tried their best. Believe me it was really unforgettable moment in each of our team member’s life.

Telugu is not the name for division

Dear telugus,
Please think twice before jumping into the discussions about politics and the people who are involved in politics. Don’t blindly listen to them and make yourself foolish. Don’t get tampered with their words about the division of the state. Don’t do vulnerable things. Don’t be in panic. Think..think yourself while doing anything with respect to the division of the state.
We all know the region of telangana in Andhrapradesh state is backward.There are reasons why it is backward, think about them and solution is not the division of the state to develop telangana region.
Think about the ways to develop that region and convey your solution in a proper channel. Students are also welcome for providing the solutions to develop the telangana region, but not with violence and division of the sate.
Students are very sensitive to politics. Our politicians are making use of them for their goals. I don’t think an university student burnt himself for division of andhrapradesh and some other student committed suicide…….etc. Don’t you think all these were done by politicians?
Please ….please…..please…….be patient and think yourself. It was you who made this state of ANDHRAPRADESH. It is one of the fast developing states in india.
Don’t make the state a battle field.Telugu is not the name for division,but for compassion.

A worrier :(

we are the lucky till............

Have you heard of recent floods in andhra & karnataka?
So many people lost their lives, belongings too.
Government has given full permission to police to make them go out of their homes. Life in villages which are just beside krishna & tunga bhadra rivers has become furious. It was hectic situation for the people. People know that they are in the mouth of nature but still they don't want to loose all their properties and house hold items. People ignored the police and action started. Police tried hitting and dragging the people out of their houses.
Some were audacious about the flood and told to police that they have been staying in those houses from past 30 years and they never got affected with flood though. No way. Police dragged them out.
People died in the floods and some people stuck in floods without food for 2 days and lost their kids, family members..........
Most horrible thing was, a small kid lost her parents and crying (where to go and what to do)... :-(
Are we not lucky? Hope we will not get this kind of situation at least till we die :-).

Change required......

One day myself and my friend walking on the foot path after having our dinner in jayanagar 4th block,bangalore. It was about 10pm on the week end. We saw a guy begging for money to have his food. He was ignored and my friend gave him Rs.100/- note. I got angry on my friend for doing such a stupid thing and we started walking towards our vehicle. I asked him 'why did you do this?'.He replied ‘He is hungry. So i helped him’.'What? ??Do you think all other people are stupids?' I asked. He replied 'I don’t like to see the people suffering without food, so helped'. Mean while in this conversation again we looked back to that guy, he was going into a bar'...I know he has already drunk so much and was asking for money to have more. I scold him and said 'because of you he is going to drink more today and will become more drunken'.
My friend started convincing himself saying 'I don’t know whether that guy is a drinker or not. But he was asking money for food. I thought the 100 rupees note will fetch him some food and he will be happy."
I said ‘there are 90% chances that these kind of beggars on the road side are drinkers. I know that. That’s why i kept quiet when he asked for money'.
He started 'Yes, But there are 10% beggars who really are suffering from lack of food, If this guy falls under this 10% category, he will really suffer a lot. I don't want these people suffer for food.'
I remembered in some telugu novel the writer had explained same situation. I thought he would have followed the same.
There is a famous proverb, ‘we can leave 100 thieves without punishing, but we should not punish an innocent one’
I kept quiet.
I don’t know how these road side drinking beggars will change their attitude. Who will change them?
There are another kind of beggars, kids…..small kids . They will beg and get the money and make begging as their hobby. What to do………….what to do????
Is there any way, friends….dejected?

Gone are the days

You know where angels live? How they look like?

I know, it happened to me that an angel forcibly entered in to my heart.
She lives in my heart itself.

Her name is ROJA.
I tried a lot to move her out as she is causing pain.
But it became impossible.
She never loved me, but I am.

She always tells me that i am fat
She disturbed me a lot
She almost broke my heart
She never loved me, but i am.

Jasmine is my favorite flower and like it's smell.
I love to watch and enjoy JOG fall.
Her eyes are jasmine and her hair is JOG fall.
She never loved me, but I am.

The days I spent with her are memorable days.
I tried expressing my love in all possible ways.
Still we are good friends any ways.
She never loved me, but I am.

If she is with me I will forget my existence in this world,
I feel like taking her out of this people crowd.
Huh...no need to search for the heaven, not even getting single word.
She never loved me, but I am.

One day I felt my heart is weighing and filled with water,
It was because my angel’s cry for her lover.
I became a sugar cane in the crusher and expected it never.
She never loved me, but I am.

Her lover is with good character and a patient of kidney.
Doctors advised to replace the damaged kidney.
With out her knowledge, I donated my kidney.
She never loved me, but I am.

Operation was successfully done,
All sorrows of my angel are gone.
I my self appreciated well-done.
She never loved me, but I am.

Some times i myself think 'why I am living in this world.', May be just because of her beautiful smile.

She never loved me, but still I love her……forever.